How Can I Make My Relationships Better With Others? 15 Easy Tips

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What can you do to improve your relationships with others?

Are you ever left wondering how you can make your relationships better with others? Each relationship you have will be unique and varied. In a romantic relationship with a partner, children, parents, friends, or work colleagues, each one is different and will require different things from you.

The one thing that they each have in common is that you want them all to be healthy and fulfilling.

Relationships are the foundation of our lives and give us so much. They can give us profound experiences. The connection that we have with another person can make us feel happy, loved, safe and secure and lead us to live a healthier and more fulfilling life.

At times though, relationships can become fractured and disconnected. There can be a breakdown of communication and misunderstanding. If we want to have long, lasting, and fulfilling relationships, then it is important to follow some simple steps.

Relationships are based on four principles: respect, understanding, acceptance, and appreciation.
— Mahatma Gandhi
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“To have a really good relationship, you have to have really strong communication”

What Steps Can I Take to Improve My Relationships?

  1. Keep up Continual Communication

Every relationship you have will benefit from good communication and listening to each other. So many arguments and misunderstandings begin with miscommunication. Open communication is the bedrock for solid, healthy relationships. If a conflict arises then it is essential to have a calm, open, constructive conversation.

Every relationship can suffer from a breakdown of communication at times. Issues occur when people stop listening to each other, or when they aren’t prepared to see a situation from another person’s point of view.

Whether it is a personal or professional relationship the same principles apply; listen and talk. All relationships are going to have times when disagreements arise, this is only natural and to be expected, no two people, no matter how close, will always agree on the same point and they can never be expected to.

What should be expected is for them to resolve any differences, acknowledge the other person’s viewpoint and be accommodating to how they think and feel. Without these basic principles of communication, relationships are never going to thrive.

2. Trust in each other

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Trust is hugely important in any relationship that you have, regardless of whether it is personal or professional. Relationships will thrive on respect and trust.

Trust means that somebody will have confidence in you and that they will feel safe with you, both physically and emotionally.

Trust is the foundation of relationships, without trust, there can be no security and it means that you will not have a healthy relationship.

There are many ways that trust is developed in relationships. It is not something that happens overnight but takes time to really develop. Honesty, consistency, admitting mistakes, being true to your word, effective communication, and helpfulness are all ways of developing trust within a relationship.

3. Don’t overstep your partner’s boundaries

Healthy boundaries in relationships can be good things to have. They aren’t there to make a person feel trapped or constricted, more to promote respect and maintain certain understandings within the relationship.

Healthy boundaries can prevent somebody from having too much control over you. If you set boundaries at the start of a relationship, they can prevent you from being taken for granted.

This can be important in a working situation, where somebody may feel at liberty to put pressure on you if you are not conforming to how they feel you should be behaving. In a personal relationship, healthy boundaries can prevent arguments from occurring, for example, if you agree to have one night a week to spend with friends setting this boundary early on will stop disagreements further down the line.

4. Always be Thinking of the Other Person

Often one of the biggest problems that arise in relationships is when one person feels that they are being taken for granted. This usually arises due to a breakdown of communication or not checking in with each other. When lives are busy, it is easy to slip into routines where one person is doing far more than another and can start to feel resentment building.

Checking into the relationship and talking about any issues or potential disagreements can prevent much larger troubles later on. People can also find that without checking in with each other, they can start to move off in different directions. It is important to make clear to each other what you want out of the relationship so you can keep moving in the same direction.


5. Have respect for each other

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Always strive to treat people with respect in a relationship, even if at times you may be angry with them. We should all treat people as we would like to be treated ourselves and everybody deserves respect.

If you have differing opinions, you should always respect the other person’s, after all, you would want them to respect yours.

You also have to understand that people are going to have different points of view from you and at times are going to want to do different things, again you need to understand this and treat everybody in the same way that you would like to be treated.

Everybody’s thoughts and opinions are valuable, even if you don’t agree with them, the key to healthy relationships is acknowledging this fact and having mutual respect.

6. Make sure you have fun together

Spending time with a loved one and having fun is one of the most special aspects of a loving relationship. Truly enjoying someone else’s company and laughing with them is good for your mental and physical health and helps to forge great bonds between people.

Everybody should try and carve out some time in their day to have fun and laugh. It eases stress and tensions, which we can all suffer from and forges closer, loving bonds, whether it is with family or friends.

7. Show gratitude for the other person

Showing your gratitude to another person for all that they do in your life will make your relationship stronger.

Nobody likes being taken for granted or feeling unappreciated, so showing how grateful you are for them at times will be very beneficial to all of your relationships.

Gratitude for everything that you have in life will mean that you get more back. Showing gratitude to people will mean that they are far more likely to show gratitude back to you in return, making for more harmonious relationships.

8. Have a regular date night

This is an important point if you have been in a long-term relationship with someone, or you have a family. Making time to be together will keep you interested in your relationship and will demonstrate that there is more to your relationship than just children or longevity.

Date nights will bring about a closer bond, will help you to relax and unwind and remove stress from your life. We can all remember the excitement and fun of date nights when we first met someone, keeping this feeling going is important in relationships as they get longer. Regular date nights are important, make time for them.

9. Make a conscious effort to avoid conflict

It’s all too easy at times to let conflict and arguments explode into relationships. The whole dynamics of a relationship; jobs, home, children relatives, stress, money worries and running a house can leave people exhausted and on edge. This can all too often lead to arguments.

Try and make a conscious effort to avoid conflicts by splitting chores, looking after children, and being more understanding and appreciating all that the other person does.

10. Reminisce over the good times

Sometimes what is needed to bring a relationship back on track is to remember why you got together in the first place. It’s all too easy at times to let life get in the way and for gaps to appear in relationships. When you have been with a person for a long time, you can start to see faults and niggles, often due to stress from outside of the relationship.

You can also start to take each other for granted and not put as much effort into the relationship as you did when you first met. Looking back over the great times in your life together can be a wake-up call for all the good stuff that you have.

11. Give each other compliments

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Something as simple as paying a loved one a compliment can make all the difference in a relationship. It can demonstrate that you are aware of them and that you appreciate them.

It also helps to boost another person’s confidence, which is always beneficial in a relationship and it can show real love, care and understanding of the other person which can make bonds stronger.

12. Really listen to the other’s grievances (be empathetic)

The key to a long-lasting relationship is really listening, not just to the day-to-day stuff, and the general chatter, but to the grievances as well. Nobody is perfect and a life shared with other people is never going to be perfect, nobody would ever truly imagine that it would,

There are always going to be times when the other person feels hard done by or has a grievance.

Here it is important to really listen to what they have to say and really try and understand where they are coming from, not just gloss over it and pretend something hasn’t happened.

13. Keep up a continual communication

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As good communication is key to a healthy, strong, relationship, making sure that you keep up continual communication is essential. Regardless of whether it is a romantic relationship, family, work relationship or friendship, each one needs regular communication to keep everything working.

14. Have interests you can do together

Finding similar hobbies and interests is a great way to keep relationships going in the right direction. Of course, we all need time to ourselves and we all benefit from having our own space to do the things that we love but shared mutual interests are a key component to a strong healthy relationship.

Whether it is something that you do as a couple, with family or with friends, shared hobbies are a great way of reconnecting, spending time together and creating strong bonds.

15. Carve out some “me” time

Having “me” time in a relationship is as essential as having shared hobbies and interests. Everybody benefits from spending some time by themselves. This is a chance very often to relax, unwind and do something that you enjoy. It can be a great time to reconnect with yourself and to have your thoughts.

Alone time is essential if you lead a busy life, especially if there are lots of other people in it. We all need that space to recharge our batteries and take care of ourselves.

Being able to spend time away from loved ones is a sign of a strong, healthy relationship, where everybody knows each other’s boundaries and respects them.

Final Thoughts

If you find yourself asking “How can I make my relationship better with others?” there are some things that you need to understand.

Relationships are never going to be perfect and no one should ever expect them to be. This will put too much pressure on them and they will be doomed before they ever begin.

That said, there are many things that you can do to make sure that your relationships run smoothly and don’t get into trouble.

We will all have a wide, varied mix of relationships throughout our lives from romantic relationships to family, working relationships to friendships but they will all be conducted along the same basic principles.

Having respect and understanding for each other, being loving, and committed, and understanding and trusting are all ways that you can make sure that the relationships that you have in your life are strong and long-lasting. Most importantly remember to always have fun and make laughter an integral part of them as that is what will see you through the good and the bad times together.

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Sharon Crossett

At 50, I walked the path of transformation and now dedicate my life to guiding other women on their journeys to fulfilment.

As an accredited life coach with a diploma in Psychology, NLP, CBT, and certifications in Mindfulness, Meditation, and holistic counselling, I bring a wealth of knowledge and experience to my practice.

My mission is simple yet profound: to help women get unstuck and create real, lasting change in their lives. I've been there myself, making drastic changes to now live a life I truly love—one that brings me joy and alignment.

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